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Imaginary EFT Comes to the Rescue

by gloria on April 13, 2010

This morning I had to go to a local medical facility for an ultrasound procedure and left the house early to make sure that I had enough time for checking in. This place runs like clockwork so it is really important to get there on time or else it affects everyone’s schedule. When I tried to start my car I discovered that it was dead, dead, dead. OMG!

I ran into the house in a frantic state and yelled to my husband that he had to drive me to my appointment. Unfortunately, he was on his way out to a meeting that he couldn’t call off. Thank goodness he has jumper cables and was able to get me on my way in record time. I made it under the wire, registered, and was called in to the scan room immediately.

The only trouble was that I had taken my anxiety along with me. My body was still in a state of panic. I couldn’t catch my breath. The woman doing the ultrasound asked me to be as still as I could, but I was afraid that my body would start to shake because I still felt unsettled. Since I have been tapping for more than a dozen years I immediately realized that although I was immobilized I could help myself.

I started to imagine myself putting gentle pressure on each of the EFT points. One by one I thought of how it would feel to touch and hold each energy point: the eyebrow point, outside of the eye, under the eye, under the nose, under the lower lip, under the collarbone and under the arm. The point that usually has an immediate calming effect on me is under the collarbone, and although that was the area she was touching, I simply imagined that her hand was not there and put my attention to that spot. After only 4 imaginary rounds I found my mind wandering to other plans for the day and I realized that I was completely at peace.

I still marvel at how powerfully EFT works anytime and anywhere. I once had a client who was a quadriplegic and could not tap himself. He would not let anyone else do it for him either so I suggested that he use imaginary EFT. He was thrilled and reported that when he used it his muscle spasms went away.

The nice thing about imaginary EFT is that no one else can tell when you are using it. One woman I know used it while dining with a friend when she felt overcome by a sudden fear. Another uses it in his doctor’s waiting room when he is anxious about hearing the results of a medical test. He discovered that it brought his blood pressure down.

The more you use EFT, whether using your imagination or your fingers, the more you will remember to use it when the going gets tough. Relief is as close as your imagination.

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What’s New for Spring

by gloria on April 8, 2010

My new project for the Spring is the production of the quintessential Audio EFT Training Program. This 8 hour CD experience will teach you everything you need to know in order to feel competent and confident about using EFT for yourself and others whether you are a licensed therapist, coach, or self-help enthusiast.

There are 16 half hour lessons that cover these topics and more:
• The history and origin of EFT
• How to create effective setup phrases that get results
• Why accessing the unconscious is essential for successful outcomes
• How to use EFT with everyday problems
• Specific protocols for eliminating fear and phobias
• Effective treatment for addictive and compulsive behaviors
• How to get amazing results treating trauma
• How to improve Physical well-being using EFT
• Ways to integrate EFT with Cognitive Therapy, couples counseling, pre and peri-natal psychology and hypnosis
• What EFT users can learn from other energy methods such as AIT, HBLU and EMDR
• Listen to complete case studies

Get ready to listen and learn!

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Reduza Estresse Instantaneamente Usando EFT

March 31, 2010

Muitos de nós está tão acostumado a viver com estresse que a gente nem tem consciencia dele. Aqui está um rápido jeito de erradicar estresse em apenas 2 minutos ou menos. Você pode praticar este procedimento chamado EFT, a qualquer hora e em qualquer lugar. Eu gosto de fazer isso quando paro no sinal de [...]

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Elimine Ansiedade Em Minutos e Seja Bem Sucedido em Exames!

March 21, 2010

Muitos de nos fica ansioso diante de situações de exames. Não importa se e um teste de direção, ou um teste para uma licença profissional ou uma prova final na escola. Muitas pessoas lidam bem com estas situações, enquanto que outras não conseguem nem raciocinar e nem mesmo se lembram daquilo que  foi estudado. Eu [...]

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Use EFT To Get a Divorce From Your Parents

March 11, 2010

When it’s time for the holidays or a family reunion do you cringe at the thought, but go anyway? Your mom will find fault with your hair, your job or the way you are bringing up your kids. Your dad might pick a fight with you or boast about how much money your brother makes [...]

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Dealing with Relationship Challenges

December 2, 2009

Remember the best seller that explained that women are from Venus and men are from Mars? Well, differences in how we think and act are not just divided according to the sexes. Each of us is born with certain characteristics that will be ours for life. For instance, eye color doesn’t change. And once we [...]

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How to Turn Life’s Lemons into Lemonade

May 31, 2009

Most of us have heard the old saying, “If life gives you lemons, make lemonade.” This sounds cute, but how many of us really do it? Most of the time when something happens in my life that sucks, I complain and feel miserable. I used to let the list of injustices or terrible experiences build [...]

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How to Heal the Emotional Scars of Scary Moments – Part 2

February 13, 2009

Last week I accompanied a dear friend to the doctor to lend support while she had an invasive diagnostic procedure. She was very anxious. I was allowed to be in the room with her while she waited for the doctor, and I did a gentle relaxation exercise with her.  Then I asked her to use [...]

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When Talking To Yourself Out Loud Helps

March 20, 2008

Did you ever have a problem or emotion that was so upsetting you wanted to call your best friend because you needed a friendly ear? But what happens if no one answers? You are stuck with your feelings and misery. I have invented a simple activity to help you help yourself when you feel this [...]

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How to Heal the Emotional Scars of Scary Moments

March 1, 2008

The first therapist I ever saw was a very kind and wise woman. One day, in a moment when I was feeling angry with myself and she was trying to be supportive she said something that I have always remembered. She told me that people are like everyday china. They have some chips and cracks. [...]

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